I prefer the XTP 180gr myself. Lower cost and very accurate. Based on the tests I have seen it seems to be just about perfect for self defense at factory ammo velocities:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=4&v=8X6vNZTbF7s&feature=emb_logo
https://www.luckygunner.com/10mm-auto-180-gr-jhp-xtp-hornady-20-rounds#geltest
According to a couple of pulldowns The Shadow did and posted, the Hornady factory load uses 8.0 grains of BE-86
http://10mm-firearms.com/factory-10mm-ammo-pull-downs/hornady-(9126)-180-gr-xtp-pull-down/
http://10mm-firearms.com/factory-10mm-ammo-pull-downs/hornady-(9126)-180-gr-xtp-(intercooler-122015)/
https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=4&v=8X6vNZTbF7s&feature=emb_logo
https://www.luckygunner.com/10mm-auto-180-gr-jhp-xtp-hornady-20-rounds#geltest
According to a couple of pulldowns The Shadow did and posted, the Hornady factory load uses 8.0 grains of BE-86
http://10mm-firearms.com/factory-10mm-ammo-pull-downs/hornady-(9126)-180-gr-xtp-pull-down/
http://10mm-firearms.com/factory-10mm-ammo-pull-downs/hornady-(9126)-180-gr-xtp-(intercooler-122015)/